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This page is excerpted from one of Rayner's  e-mail messages.

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How this new form of birthing came about.
(Including the historical roots of the modern Baby Sling.)


      Of course no-one in their right mind would suggest to women that they should do without anaesthesia during childbirth even if it was a strong possibility that their young may be imprinted with a desire to become drug addicts in later life. (See accompanying literature.) There is no doubt that childbirth is one of the most painful experiences a woman can face.


      I want to tell you how I discovered this very benign manner of birthing and was able to test it on several hundred women. I had invented the first two ringed baby sling. We lived in Hawaii and after our infant was born we wanted to carry her with us. It seemed to us to be the ideal way at least for the first few months of rearing a child.


      We had bought one of the baby carriers and found it to be very unsatisfactory. The shoulder straps were very inadequate, she was squashed up against my wife without her being able to breast feed. The fabric was synthetic and hot and she got a heat rash very quickly. This was Hawaii in the early eighties. So I got a woolen scarf I had bought with me from Scotland, knotted all four corners and when I put her in it, she gave a sigh and nestled down in it to sleep. Perfect.


      Except as time went on we found that we had to keep untying the knots and tying them up again. My wife and I were different heights. So I bought a piece of cotton, laid it down on the floor and spent the next three days folding and unfolding one end like a paper airplane. At last I had managed to fold the 36 inches into 2 inches across and also looped two curtain rings round the other end. Putting the folded end through the rings worked just fine as it jammed securely. We were off.


      We had no intention at first of making a business out of this discovery, but as time went on, and lots of people would stop us and ask where we had got his wonderful and practical sling we realised that we had to do something.

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     A constant procession of pregnant women and women with new borns were soon calling to order a sling, and as pregnant women do they asked my wife about her birthing experience. When she told them it was a stress and pain free birth they wanted to know more.


      As soon as a labouring mother goes into the fight or flight syndrome, if she is encouraged to pretend to fight off an imaginary predator by strenuously beating a pillow, she will be able to discharge the adrenaline which is preventing the cervix from opening.


      At first many of the women were quite skeptical, but many of them told me that they would give it a try. Not all of them could do it. Many were Asian and were unused to releasing anger and yelling. It helped that my wife was part Japanese and part Hawaiian.


      The Caucasians particularly those belonging to the growth movement were very enthusiastic and I soon had many who were willing to try it. To a lot of them it made perfect sense although at first the idea of pretending to fight of an imaginary predator took a bit of swallowing. Once they started and the pain and distress started to leave them they really got into it and began to enjoy their births. the average time it took for the adrenaline to be discharged was about 20 to 30 minutes.


      One of the great advantages is that having a home birth is not essential, a hospital birth with all the necessary equipment and expertise for the comparatively rare occasion when things go wrong is immediately at hand. It would also save the NHS a fortune in saved anaesthesia.
I am an filmmaker and anthropologist who seeks out various cultures to see if their nurturing skills and social conditions led to a violent or peaceful culture. There are solutions out there which we could mimic that would improve the level of violence and alienation that our young experience. This is valuable work that our government and the public need to know about.


      To put such solutions into effect will take time, many years in fact and we do need to start now if we all going to be able to live in peace and creativity with each other.

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